Keep spreading happiness, deep inside you by doing the things you love and like the most just keeping in mind it don't stake the happiness of others' around.

Embrace Happiness Without Choice

It's a very good mode to relieve oneself just by doing what you like without it troubling no one else. Then it goes for an awesome job you are doing. It happens for the good of you. Again it benefits someone else even. And if everything you do ends so, what an enormous way of doing things it is.

I was just thinking of the concept of 'happiness', The International Day of Happiness is celebrated and commemorated every year on 20th of March. And studies done on this concept of happiness reveals, Finland takes the first position and India ranks 139th, with all mercy. No wonder, man yet behind the ways to find his own happiness alone and  less considerate about the happiness of others.

I, as a reader, was astonished to find our ranking. But time didn't let me pause or ponder much on this. Well, to come to a perfect answer we could think of one more word along with this, 'equal' or 'equality'. Are we given this status of equality back in our home? Do we enjoy this equal status anywhere in our society? Again let's think about our working space. Are we all given equal privilege there? Are we all given equal status there? Are we all given equal appreciation there? Are our talents, not though applauded are they at least watched in the sphere. Is it the matter of gender that discriminates? Or can you find something else?

But make sure these sort of inequality or even imbalances you find shouldn't affect your state of happiness. And, I believe there are far more valid reasons to embrace happiness, for when there are many to find faults, take it, you are definitely worthy, or definitely you are praiseworthy. Just believe in yourself and move on. Nothing more or nothing less than being 'you'. Each day is a perfect blessing, to cherish all moments and stay healthy, happy and let the prosperity in your thoughts and deeds, make you see a beautiful world, where devils could dwell in plenty and angels tread the path in happiness.

Before I end this let me quote George Orwell and his Animal Farm, "All are equal, but some are more equal." But let happiness be the same for all I wish. For it's we who have to find the ways to it. For no one else would be happy to see our happiness, except a very few. So keep spreading happiness, deep inside you by doing the things you love and like the most just keeping in mind it don't stake the happiness of others' around.

© Parvathy Ramachandran



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